當你了解並接納別人的時候，同時也改變了別人。
People around you will change, if you truly understand and accept who they really are.
真正的溝通是在想改變對方嗎？
Is it true that communication aims to change the other party?
答案是：不是！真正的溝通是「了解」一個人。
The answer is no! The real communication is to true understand the other party.
人這輩子最大的改變，是會因為最「了解」你的人而改變，
People around you will change, if you truly understand and accept who they really are.
真正的溝通是在想改變對方嗎？
Is it true that communication aims to change the other party?
答案是：不是！真正的溝通是「了解」一個人。
The answer is no! The real communication is to true understand the other party.
人這輩子最大的改變，是會因為最「了解」你的人而改變，
People make their biggest change for someone who understand them well, not for those who ask them to change!
-----摘自許添盛醫師 心靈的本質 讀書會
-----From Dr. Hsu's <The Nature of the Psyche> study group
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